There’s a lot going on here… first off good on you to make these repairs yourself. It’s a big task.
Second of all screw the dealer quoting $11k you can buy a brand new hemi for $4k. I’m in Cali and thought the prices here were bad. Sheesh.
As far as lifters goes, I paid $500 after making an offer that was accepted.
The ones I recieved have the same laser etching as my originals and came in sealed boxes that appear to be the same boxes others get from Mopar. I believe mine are real but I’m just as astonished as you because the Mopar website wanted $1200 for the same set.
Why do you think you have a cracked head? Besides the dealer saying so? If you already have the heads off give them a good once over before buying a new one. You said no local machine shops, if that’s the case honestly having your heads checked / cleaned surfaced and pressure tested is worth a pretty lengthy drive to me personally… especially if you compression tested at 200 and hatching on cylinders looks good. These heads don’t tend to have issues unless you overheated it pretty darn bad.
I agree with you because I’m doing the same stuff. I have it apart so why not replace thermostat water pump, fan clutch hell I’m even replacing the radiator cap. Me personally I’m not replacing timing components but I have already inspected them. Worst case scenario pulling front timing cover isn’t really hard on these motors so if down the road there’s an issue I’ll address it.
As far as your exhaust manifolds go, I would take your originals, buy a straight edge off amazon and check them once you have them cleaned up. If they are off by more than a couple thousandths (check with feeler guage $5 at harbor freight) then buy a cheap 1’ sanding block off amazon and do it yourself. They will never break bolts again. Your new ones are likely more out of spec than the old ones I can go into detail about that if you want, just let me know. I say all this assuming a machine shop is totally out of the question.
My local machine shop surfaces exhaust manifolds for $50 each, I’m having both my heads cleaned, surfaced, pressure tested, new valve seals, and springs for $340. (Springs and seals supplied by me).
Also I’m sure remflex gaskets are great, lots of people swear by them. I put felpro on mine which have the heat deflectors and they work great. $50 for the set. $22 for Dorman bolts per side on amazon. Just my two cents definitely not the Bible.