Ok, so buying a 17 or 18 model "should" put me in the safe zone then in terms of those failures?
What's special about redline oils? I'm not brand loyal per say but I always use synthetics in my vehicles.
I don't know that any hemi is safe, I would start doing some uoa's at around 50k miles to see the wear. There are a lot of ideas on the cause, from poor quality cam material to needle bearings issues. The fact that it is usually just one lob wiped it seams like bad lifter/roller/needle bearing is likely the issue.
There are two things, hemi tick and cam lobs wiped out, one doesn't necesserily have something to do with other, and visa versa, it doesn't mean that can't be related. Without zero doubt redline 5w30 is the best at killing hemi tick, the science backs the results the forum has had. Hemi tick is a hot spot from an out of whack lifter, the science of redline esters are polar and resistant to heat, super high moly creates a plate where there is friction, high zddp, and branched chain pao lubrication works in tandom with esters as your base oil. Motul 300v would be the only known "well established" oil similar to redline as far as all of these features. research ester oils, for whatever reason the ester companies have paired esters with high moly, perfect for high performance applications, and just so happens help to alleviate hemi tick where other synthetics don't.
My only thing would be look at the 8 speeds, determine that is what you want. The new trucks mechanically heat fluid, transmision and gears. You may opt to buy a used truck and make your upgrades, some people don't prefer the newer tech, just research it.