Sorry for the confusion of switching temps( I go back and clean that up for anyone searching and coming across this to be more clear). I followed the green sheet 100% the second time. The first time I followed everything, but leaving it running(This will result in you being low in my case about 1.25 quarts extra went it with it running), I stupidly shut it off. But now the fluid is good, rechecked last night. Drove it to my sister's birthday dinner and would still randomly get the "proceed in drive" Sometimes for a quick second, so fast you couldn't even read it.
I noticed last night that, again, turning corners and hitting bumps were issues that caused it to come on. It got late last night after having my sister's birthday dinner, so I didn't even pop the hood when I got home. This morning, on the way to work, it was much worse; every bump would cause the light to come on. As I got closer to work, I went around the block on a road the city doesn't maintain well, and the more potholes I hit, the more different messages I started to get. No longer just the "proceed in drive, do not move to park " message. "Service 4WD" at one point, when that one would pop, you have to stop, put it back in park before you could go, and the D light was flashing. Pulled the codes and saw several random codes in the BCM and TCM, nothing in the ECM, and random ones in the IPC as well. I knew it had to be a ground at this point or a wiring issue. I had searched here last night and knew the one behind the airbox and the frame rails were common. Popped the hood here at work and found the ground behind the airbox completely loose. I guess it got pulled when they did the lifers, or it just had worked its way loose. Either way, I feel confident this was more the cause than the fluid, and I don't believe I can now say with any degree of confidence that if your fluid was low, it would pop this message. I think the codes it stored were due to low fluid, but the message popping up randomly was more related to the ground. I am sure it's possible that it would pop that code if low, but I think you have symptoms, not just the random message I was getting. Thanks, everyone, for your help. Hopefully, this is resolved now. I won't know for sure until I get several drive cycles, but I hate when people don't post complete resolutions. I also hate when you can tell they messed up, for example, as I did, but don't admit it because our mess-ups can help someone else. We are all human and can forget stuff sometimes.
FYI, I am my own boss; however, I hate THC, the stuff makes me paranoid and hyped up like a crack head. So I don't smoke. My wife does, and she works for her dad, and it's no secret whatsoever that she smokes its legal here and most smaller employers treat it like liquor as long as your not high at work and it doesn't impact your job they are fine with it if it impacts your job because your high or do nothing but sitting around talking about getting high and make it uncomfortable for those that don't smoke they give you the boot quick. Pics of lose ground for those that may be looking for it in the future.